What It’s Like Crossing Over to The Other Side…

Sometimes Spirit shows me what their crossing was like to the other side. Recently, an older women who died in the hospital, showed me her taking her last breath. She said it was like holding her breath as if she was being baptised in a lake. As she came closer to the other side it was like coming back out of the water as she could feel the water rushing against her face, as she took her first breath on the other side. Her father reached out to help her through and she said she was in paradise.

An older gentlemen who had a heart attack, showed me it was like riding a bad roller coaster and the coaster was shaking violently and then there was calm for a while and another violent shaking before he shot through to the other side. His wife told me he was dead and the doctors brought him back with a defibrillator before letting him cross to the other side.

Another young man who was in a bad car wreck, where he died instantly, said he was shot through to the other side and had no idea where he was until he saw his loved ones and they told him he was in heaven. He could look back to the crash site and realized he was in spirit.

A little 11-year-old girl told me when she crossed that she instantly started floating to some beautiful bright lights where she could see a city in the distance. As she got closer she could see the brilliant colors of rolling hills with flowers and green grass and a city of with crystal buildings and transparent walls of big school buildings where people were listing to lectures from great teachers. As she was getting closer she noticed she had her loved ones who had preceded her death next to her and they started talking to her and told her how happy they were that she was with them. She was so happy and animated telling her story.

Adult spirits usually don’t talk about how they crossed as they already have an agenda of people they want to mention during their reading and family events there fondly remember so their loved ones have proof it really is them I’m bringing through. It is not until the client asks that they tell us what it was like crossing.

Children in spirit are a different matter. I usually ask who was on the other side to meet them, so they will validate who is on the other side with them for their parents. They love to share how they crossed and what it’s like on the other side. They can see our side of the veil whenever they want. They can describe their rooms, their sibling’s rooms with very detailed descriptions to validate what they see to their parents. They also like to tell of how all of their siblings have recently got into trouble for further proof.

Children frequently appear in what I call visitation dreams. These dreams usually happen right before you wake up in the morning. You know you are sleeping and that you are dreaming. But you also realize that although you are not awake that your loved one is talking to you and showing you things in your dream. You may even think to yourself, “How is this possible.” Your loved one leaves having given you information and you awaken to look around your bedroom as if it really happened. It did! A regular dream you will forget in hours or days. A visitation dream you will remember as if it really happened, because it did.

Sweet dreams!

Steve Spur

Steve Spur is an Evidential Psychic Medium based in the Dallas and Fort Worth, Texas area. He reads for people all over the United States to reconnect people with their friends, family and loved ones who have crossed over.


  1. Hali lynn on July 27, 2019 at 8:10 pm

    I’ve had validation dreams since I was a teenager, except I have them at night and I’m not sure I’m even asleep

  2. RUBESHNI on December 10, 2019 at 8:13 am


    • Steve Spur on December 10, 2019 at 9:46 am

      I call the other side heaven. It is another dimension connected to ours.

    • Shirley on April 3, 2020 at 1:55 pm

      Its another demension. Beautiful. Peaceful. You can travel anywhere. See loved ones already there. Even our pets are there. We can visit back on earth. Those that have lost a child still have them near them. They continue to grow.

  3. edward on September 16, 2020 at 12:33 am

    i was in a bad car accident last year on may 7th,2019…4 people instantly died including my sister,my aunt,my nephew and friend..i survived because i was ejected through a window ..i woke up two days later in Harborview hospital in Seattle, wa…those two days i was not awake,i seen dark things..a long hallway people coming in my room and going..my sister was sitting next to my bed..she was watching over me…i woke up screaming 4 my sister because i couldn’t move a dr bunch of nurses n a pastor came in n told me what happened..they said it was a miracle i opened my eyes ..now I’m paralyzed

    • Steve Spur on October 2, 2020 at 8:58 am

      You and your family picked this this life before you came down here. There is a reason for everything that happens in this life, even though we will not understand until we die. I highly recommend the book by Robert Schwartz, Your Souls Plan. It will help explain what has happened to you. So sorry for your losses!

  4. Jay Villa on September 26, 2020 at 10:26 pm

    Hello, I lost my spouse of 22 yrs this last July 23 rd. It has been the most difficult thing hat I had to endure. I wish that the was a way for me to just talk to him once more.

    • Steve Spur on October 2, 2020 at 8:44 am

      Make an appointment with a medium that you trust. Ask friends and family about mediums they may have used. Do your research and I’m sure you will get proof they are fine on the other side.

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