There are some mediums that will not ask you anything, including who you want to talk to. I found this to be wrong. When I first started out, I read people in circles and psychic fairs, where the reading would last from five to 15 minutes. I would receive a great message from mom and at the end of the reading, the sitter would say, I was really wanting to talk to dad. This happened a lot. I would take the strongest spirit waiting in line to talk to you and you’d want to hear from someone else. So after hundreds of readings, I started out asking who would you like to hear from. No names, just a relationship, Mother, Father, Husband, Wife, Child, Friend, Grandfather, etc. Now, after having done thousands of readings, I do the same thing. Who do you want to hear from?
Say the sitter wanted to her from her grandmother and her father was first in line. The conversation would go something like this. I’d hear a man’s voice say hello, and I’d say who the hell are you? He’d say, I’m her father and I’d say prove it! He say is name was Walter and he was born on June 7th. So, I’d ask my sitter, do you have a father named Walter born on June 7th and she’d say yes. I’d tell her to hold on a minute. Great news dad, she validated you. Now can you bring through grandmother to talk to my sitter? If not you’ll have to get back in line. He brings through grandmother and the sitter is happy. I didn’t tell her that dad had the lotto numbers for her and the key to everlasting happiness.
I would be happy to talk to anybody. Usually whomever comes in first has the most important information for you or can validate most of the family stuff. I can bring through just about anybody that you know and can validate personal information they bring through. I can’t bring through Elvis unless you were very good friends with Elvis. I can assure you he is doing fine!
