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One of my guilty pleasure movies is called “The Matrix,” about a young man who wants to learn the truth about the universe. One of my favorite scenes is when his mentor offers to show him “the truth,” but once enlightened, there is no going back. After I had my accident that left me with the ability to see and talk to dead people, I still wasn’t ready for the truth. It took another seven or eight years for everything to fall in place. To me talking to dead people was a cheap parlor trick that had no value to me or anybody else for that matter. I was missing the big picture. You know the saying, “You can lead a horse to water…” well I wasn’t drinking the kool-aid.

It wasn’t until years later that I tried to shed this special skill that “they,” my guides and angels showed me why everything happened the way it did. You see I signed up for it. Before I came down here and was born, it was part of the plan. A plan that I had felt I was dragged to kicking and screaming the whole way. I was shown the people in deep dark depressions that were contemplating suicide and stuck in their lives on earth. They were frozen with sadness and regret. They couldn’t budge until someone could prove to them that their loved ones were alive and well on the other side. They needed concrete proof their loved ones were still alive so they could get out of the ditch and back on their path to experience all of the great things to come. So I now had a purpose.

What is your purpose? Why are you here? What did you sign up for? You came down here to live, love and learn. There will be many more highs than lows in your life, but you asked to experience them both. How many lives will it take to learn unconditional love? It’s not about how much money you can make, it’s about how many lives you can change for the better. It’s all about the relationships you make in this lifetime. It’s about all of the people you meet on the merry-go-round, both the good and the bad. You continue to learn with every lesson in this life, both good and bad. To evolve your soul you will serve and teach what you know. It will give your life meaning. Don’t look back. Look for the best in everybody and every situation. The real lessons in this life are drawn from the relationships you have in this life and how you live and love. You fall down, get back up and keep learning, living and loving. It’s all about how you handle your personal relationships and those experiences that you will look back upon once you are in heaven.