3 Ways to Become a Medium (Two are a Pain in the…)

I’ve never known anyone in elementary school raise their hand who wanted to be a medium. I know plenty of natural and skilled mediums who don’t want to be a mediums, they just wanted their skills validated, to know what was going on and went on to walk a different career path. Everyone is born psychic, some are born natural mediums. Most people try to avoid or will not use these gifts or skills. That’s the easiest way to become a medium, is to be born that way.

The second way is a more painful way. I had a near death awakening, by having a heat stroke in a 120 degree attic and falling out the attic opening onto a concrete floor hitting my head and having a severe concussion. Wasn’t the first near death experience I’ve had counting all of the car wrecks, horse wrecks and boxing accidents. It’s just the one that took! A lot of people have a near death experiences and wake up with skills they didn’t have before they went into the hospital. Most of the people that get these skills are in denial. Like I thought it was schizophrenia for seven years.

The third way and the most painful to the heart and mind is to lose someone very close to you. Your loved ones may come to you in a physical spirit form, either in color or black and white. They can talk to you and you can understand everything they say. You want to keep communicating with them and ask them to come back. Your grief has allowed your soul to become closer to the veil and able to see things and connect to spirit that others can’t see. Did you have this skill from birth and are just now ready to validate it? I don’t know. I just know almost ever medium I know came from one of these three circumstances.

I didn’t want to be a medium even after I found out the skill set I inherited. I did everything I could to learn how to turn it off. I learned how to meditate and meet my spirit guides. The first thing I asked them was, “What in the bald headed hell was I supposed to do with this bullshit?”

They asked me, if I came across a person who was stranded on the side of the road in the mud and couldn’t get out, would I help? I said, sure I would. That’s the way I was raised. They asked why? I told them it was the right thing to do and to help those stranded to get on down the road to do the things they need to get to. They said, Right! That’s what you’d be doing with your new skills. Helping people get out of a ditch because they are suffering from a dear loss and they can’t get out to carry on their life lessons and do the things they are meant to do.

We’ll screw me! I guess I’m going to be a medium now. I’ts no woo woo, mojo, for me. I’m the son of a bitch that will tell it like it is. You will know a dozen people in your life that will be in one of the groups that I explained at the top. It will be one of the life experiences you signed up for, even if you didn’t know it, like me. There is no going back, once this door has opened. Even if you choose a different career path you will use the skills the rest of your life. They are nothing to be ashamed of. Walk down this path for a little while and see if you can help those who need help getting back on their path. It may change your life!

Steve Spur

Steve Spur is an Evidential Psychic Medium based in the Dallas and Fort Worth, Texas area. He reads for people all over the United States to reconnect people with their friends, family and loved ones who have crossed over.

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