Sometimes I’m watching TV with my wife and I’ll say wow, she’s pretty. She doesn’t get jealous, because that’s the same thing I say watching the post parade in a horse race. I’ll say, wow look at that gray filly, she’s pretty, long legs a perfect head! I’m sure the other fillies in the race have great personalities, but the gray stood out to me! I see a pretty butterfly and point it out to my wife. It doesn’t mean I want to have sex with it.
I don’t go for pretty or handsome for myself anymore. I go for unique. I try for the look like the person I want to see in the mirror. Someone may say, Look at that guy with the black cowboy hat, mustache, prayer beads, medicine bag and sunglasses. I bet he thinks he’s cool. And they would be right!
Impress yourself in the mirror and not others! You’ll have a far more interesting life.