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How Long Are You Going to Stay Mad?

I’ll ask my client if they can have a sister or mom validate what spirit is bringing through and they will say, Oh I’m not talking to them! And spirit smiles at me and says tell them the story.

So I say, if a two-yr-old child broke your most precious possession, how long would you stay mad at them? And they say, they wouldn’t. And I ask why? And they say, because they don’t know any better. And I say, exactly!

Everybody you know is on a different soul level. You may be in college, while they may still be in kindergarten. It doesn’t matter how old you are. It all depends on how your soul evolves. Some of us are slower than others. You can’t see what’s going on in a two-yr-old’s mind, so why do you think that you should know anyone else’s any better.

Let it go. Forgive them and move on. Make them feel better and apologize and get it off your karmic clipboard. That doesn’t mean you have to invite them over for Thanksgiving. It’s ok that you don’t like them. Just forgive them and send them a birthday or Christmas card once in a while.

If you don’t take care of this now, you will repeat the lesson over and over in this lifetime or the next until you get it right. Forgive and you don’t have to forget. Be the bigger person. Be the more advanced soul. Every time you think of the person who wronged you, just think of them as a little two-yr-old, and think, I hope someone changes your diaper pretty soon, because this shit is getting old! But forgive, because they don’t know better!

Steve Spur

Steve Spur is an Evidential Psychic Medium based in the Dallas and Fort Worth, Texas area. He reads for people all over the United States to reconnect people with their friends, family and loved ones who have crossed over.

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