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Don’t kid yourself. The ideas and random thoughts that lead you to coincidences and chance encounters are not your own. They are no coincidences. Do you really think you’re that smart? Start counting the coincidences in your life and start writing them down. Write all of the random thoughts you’ve had and where they led you. Coincidence? Your ego says yes.

How many coincidences does it take to from a pattern? Look outside the box. Pull back far enough 

and look at the big picture. Look at all of the places you have lived, all of the people you have met,

all of the teachers and bosses you’ve had to this point, both good and bad, how you learned everything

that you have learned and where it has taken you. Chart it out; point by point,  map it to how you came

to be at this point in your life. Any dead ends? What about all of the people in your life from birth to

now see any similarities? Chance?

What if someone you trusted the most was guiding you, maybe an Angel or Guide you met before you

came into this world? Why are they guiding you down this path? What are the lessons you learned and

are learning? Coincidence? Are you growing as a person or are you just surviving. Why would

someone guide you down this path if you didn’t ask them to? Because you did ask them to. Now just

figure out why. When you were a kid you’d look for the hidden objects in the puzzle, like Where’s

Waldo. You needed a soft focus and to pull back from the picture to see the hidden details. Just like

you need to do in your life now. What’s the agenda? Is it to make the most money, collect the most

toys? Does money buy happiness?

What’s your plan? Survive and struggle to make it day to day, week to week? What if everything in

this life was about personal relationships? What if you wanted to experience every type of emotion

there was? How do you measure how far you have come? If you experienced they most horrific pain

and suffering known to mankind, wouldn’t you be able to measure its opposite, such as the most

blissful and fulfilling unconditional love? How far can you measure and experience the depths of one without feeling the other. Say you’ve experienced pain and suffering at a level of four. So now you

could experience true love at a level of four. But you wouldn’t know what it was like to experience

suffering or love at say on the ninth level.

How do you know to love unconditionally and to forgive, if you have not been hated for something

you have no control over, such as how you look, your race, where you were born or raised or for

something that you did? Chance or coincidence? What if someone was guiding you so you could

experience tons of experiences and relationships, the good, bad and the ugly? Why is it so hard to

believe that you asked someone for help before you came down here?

I don’t believe in predestination. Everyone has free will! Thousands of people on the other side have

told me we all have free will. How many times did it take you to graduate first grade? Great. What’s

next? Second grade! Oh my God, when do we get out of school? What do you mean we never stop

learning even up to the seconds before your death?

Think about the most powerful events in your life. List them if it will help you see the big picture. I

will bet that the biggest events in your life have to do with relationships with other people. Everything

you have done or about to do has to do with a relationship with another person. Whether you are

dating or got married, or got the job of your dreams, or has to do with an upcoming decision, it has to

do with a relationship with another person. The story of your life is made up of personal relationships,

the good the bad and the ugly.

 Every relationship is a test. To graduate every grade, you have to experience and take the test. How

many times do you have to retake the same test? Why do you keep attracting the same people,

relationships and problems to your life? It’s a test. How many times do you have to fail the test to

finally learn the answers? It’s a pattern not a coincidence. Write them all down and look for the pattern. What prejudices do you have to overcome to pass the test? What answers do you need to

change to pass the test?

 It’s hard enough to go through school with dyslexia, but to get through chemistry class to graduate

high school when you have a D average in the class was tough. I couldn’t make a cheat sheet large

enough to get through the tests. Then after failing the third high school chemistry test, I noticed a

pattern. I was ADHD and dyslexic but recognized I could memorize 60% of the test, and then I was

screwed. But I saw that of the 50% of the tests were multiple choice questions. Our Chemistry teacher

 was very anal and precise. 25% of the answers would always be the choice of (a) on the test, 25%

(b), 25% (c) and 25% (d). The other 50% of the test was made up of true and false questions. You

guessed it, 50% true, and 50% false. After I made my 60% of correct answers I could make educated

guesses about the other questions. Ended up making a C+ in the class and got to graduate freaking

high school. You still have to guess at some stuff in life.

 Look for the patterns and take a step back from your life. Look for the big picture and you start to see

how things add up. Why did you fail a test and later pass it? Why did you fail a relationship and pass at another? Why are some things in your life hard and others easy? What if someone was tipping you

off and telling you all of the cool shortcuts to learn and get the most out of an experience? All you have to do is ask and open your mind and eyes to your path. It’s not the correct path, because there is no wrong

and right path, just your path. This is the path you signed up for. No predestination, just a bunch of interesting opportunities and experiences that seem random at times that help evolve you and your

true self, your soul.

 Elevate your soul. Transcend outdated thoughts and experience life to its fullest. Get the most out of

this life’s experience. And as you grow you will be able to help others grow and get the most bang for

their buck in life experiences. I do believe the most important experience you are meant to learn is love. Your heart, ego and soul long to be loved by anyone and anything. From the love of a good meal,

a great pet or your soul mate. Your conscious and unconscious mind longs for love any kind of love.

You want to be noticed for who you are and loved. It’s in our DNA. You can’t escape it. What do you

love the most? Who loves you the most?

 If you could share with the world unconditional love, how good would it feel? Don’t know if we’ll

ever know in this lifetime. We put too many conditions on love, such as greed, prejudice, jealousy,

all limitations of our mind and ego. So how do you let go of your ego? Don’t know if you ever can in

this lifetime and in a physical world. You don’t give up trying. We may be at point A today, but

somewhere in the far off distance is point B, uncondional love. It’s a goal. It’s a planned trip that might

take a lifetime to achieve, or for that matter many lifetimes, according to what you believe. Take the

long route, the scenic route, the shortcuts, the planned path or the unpredictable path, but keep an eye

on the prize. Keep one eye open to the mountain peak and one eye to the ground to see how far you

 have come and how far you have to go.

Don’t think that all of the thoughts in your head are yours. Don’t think that you came up with all of

your dreams. Just for a minute think that just possibly there could be a God, and that there are other

beings on the other side that are helping you, inspiring you and give you opportunities to learn and

grow. Just follow the coincidences and they will lead you on your path. Master plan or just a

coincidence? Believe what you want to believe, just believe in yourself.