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Recently I had a client come to see me who wanted to contact her late husband who had crossed over a year ago. I made contact with him and wished that I hadn’t! All this woman wanted to do was cuss out her late husband and ask how he was going to repay her the money that he stole. You see about six weeks after his death she found photos of all of the young girls that he had to their house and swimming pool as she was away on business trips. She had a stack of about twenty young women’s photo’s tape to pieces of paper with phone numbers she had retrieved from his cell phone and money he had given to these girls.

It would have almost been comical had I not been the medium in the office. She was yelling obscenities at her husband, shaking a prescription bottle of cialis pills that she didn’t know he had in front of my face as I had my eyes closed connected to her husband. The husband said he was sorry and felt her pain. Needless to say she wasn’t ready to accept the apology! The session ended pretty quickly as she didn’t want to hear from any of her other relatives or friends who had crossed over.

I don’t know what she expected. I recommended she see a counselor and she said she had been seeing one. Maybe it is time to see another with all of that rage. I couldn’t ease her pain and I don’t know if anyone will ever be able to help her. I was a sad situation!

People should go to a medium for proof their loved one or friend is on the other side. A medium should be able to bring concrete proof to you that they are communicating with your loved one and they are fine on the other side. Once on the other side it is all peaches and cream! You forgive and forget, you don’t hold a grudge and you love all and ask for forgiveness for the things you may have done on earth. There are no secrets between souls on the other side!

We are all here to learn earth lessons. I don’t know what lessons you asked to learn on the earth plane. I know some of my lessons to learn are patience, unconditional love and forgiveness. I don’t know who I asked to help me with these lessons but I know I did. I’ll forgive these people as I ask for forgiveness for my own actions. What did you learn in your relationships? Could you have learned these lessons in heaven? I don’t think so. You don’t get the chance to learn hatred, guilt, shame, grief, pain, suffering, etc. in heaven and you can’t learn them on your own. Now we can have compassion and love for others who have gone through the same experiences. And I hope I can learn through others pain and suffering so I don’t have to go through it myself! You live, learn, forgive and love otherwise your living in hell on earth! Release the pain and suffering and go on to the next lesson. The next lesson may be one of love!

Peace, Steve